What would it take for Americans to consider adopting healthcare practices from countries with universal systems?

How do I cope with the fact that I love romance and want a partner yet hardly ever develop feelings for people? It’s like I have to pick between being lonely or forcing something not there.
Does having a secret private life make it easier to tolerate the boring parts of being a normal adult?
What are the important things you must never do when you are in a long distance relationship far from your lovely partner?
What are some relaxing bedtime rituals that actually work, and how can you incorporate them into your nightly routine?