What advice would you give to someone struggling to stop forcing connections and start valuing themselves more?

With prices for gas, groceries, healthcare premiums, and energy skyrocketing while snap and other benefits are plummeting, how are people that voted for Trump based on his affordability promises doing now?
What’s the best approach to prevent a family member from babysitting your child without offending them, especially when they've already made major mistakes?
Why do some parents seem oblivious to the struggles of others in situations like hospital waiting rooms, and what can be done to increase their awareness?