What's a boundary you set that felt selfish at the time but turned out to be the healthiest thing you ever did?

What is one destination that surprised you the most after visiting, and how did it change your expectations?
Elon Musk said that weaponized empathy is the biggest danger to the west, and he's right. The empathy for billionaires, rich criminals, and influencers is not only a danger, but absurd. Do you agree?
How do you stay calm and make the right decision when you're faced with a middle-of-the-night intrusion?
What are the funniest or most shocking misconceptions you've encountered from other adults in everyday life?