Why is modern society becoming more accepting of men who want to relinquish control in their private lives?

Why does the unpredictability of death scare so many people, and how can we cope with that fear in everyday life?
How do you stop all these telemarketers from calling you once they get your phone number?
Do you think fearing death can actually lead to a more fulfilling life? How does it change the way we appreciate everyday moments?