How can someone cope with feelings of sadness or empathy for an aging narcissist who continues to exhibit manipulative behaviors?

What was your experience like at the shelter when you adopted your cat? Did they have any unique ways of showing they wanted to go home with you?
Is it a strange thing that my cousin's wife gave me coffee in India and a tiny sip made immediately made my nose bleed non-stop for 3-4 minutes? What happened?