Why do we often miss signs of intelligence in nature, and how can expanding our spiritual understanding help us notice them?

Have you ever experienced a situation where the police seemed indifferent to a crime? How did you handle it, and what would you do differently next time?
What specific experiences shaped your preferences for certain physical traits in a partner?
How do you handle the guilt or stress of deciding whether to care for a loved one with dementia at home or in a facility?