Why would someone you thought was a friend disrespect your home, and how did you handle it?

Does democracy “level down”? Critics say a professor’s vote counts the same as a manual worker’s. A friend joked it depends on the professor—maybe a worker’s vote is worth more than a philosophy or gender studies professor’s. Thoughts?
Why might being physically close to your twin flame before healing can cause more harm than good?
Why do people find unpredictability so attractive, and how can it actually help in building relationships?