If we had a whole night with no interruptions, how would you spend it with me?

When you're in a relationship with a person with BPD, how can you distinguish between typical relationship ups and downs and signs of an impending breakup?
What are some ways to find comfort or reprieve when dealing with chronic illness discoveries that change your life outlook?
How can you support someone like your MIL who feels too nice to refuse uninvited guests, without being rude?
How do you find a balance between being productive and not upsetting coworkers in a union environment?