Why do some people find it hard to stay kind when others treat them poorly, and how do you manage to still be nice in those situations?

Why do men often feel anxious or uncomfortable in innocent interactions with children, and how does this differ from women's experiences?
What are some social situations where men fear being misunderstood, and why do these fears exist?
Why do some twin flame couples choose to go against societal norms in their marriage and parenting styles?