How can straight-A students find genuine friendships when they’re often seen as just sources of academic help?

Can you blame a man for doing what you would have done under his circumstances, given that the man has not robbed, killed, or assaulted anyone, and that you have absolutely no hard evidence of any wrongdoing on his part?
How can someone with Sun in Virgo overcome their tendency towards indecision and shyness to build confidence in themselves?