What are some real-life examples where quiet acts of kindness made a bigger difference than words of sympathy?

How do I frame leftist positions as intuitive? The Right gets away with being nonfactual because their wrong facts are at least intuitive. How do I make correct positions (like the validity of trans people) feel intuitive without explaining anything?
Why do you think that Joe Rogan wants to highlight Obama's earlier policies on immigration and deportation that contrast sharply with the current Democratic Party stance?