What are some effective ways to reclaim bonding time with my baby when my mother-in-law won't give me space?

How do I get over someone I love? We were together but he is now married to someone else. I still love him and miss him terribly. What do I do?
Why do Republicans act like politics is middle school and they want to be the popular bully? Are they really that insecure and that's why they are so fearful and defensive?