What's the most unusual wedding dish you've heard of, but never tried yourself?

How would you deal with an extremely uncomfortable family dinner where your partner's ex shows up unexpectedly?
Why do I fall in love so fast when a girl says something supportive to me? I'm talking just minutes. Is it because I'm depressed of loneliness, and appreciate the support I get from others THAT much?
How do people with BPD cope with the guilt and shame that can follow a collapse, especially when it impacts their career and relationships?