Who in your life knew how to motivate people, whether it is to be calm or more emotive?

Do relationships with a person with borderline personality disorder ever improve, or is this gradual decline that I feel only a sign that this will get worse, much worse?
If you were able to tell your doctor anything regarding your care, what would it be?
Why do I seem to have no good friends? When I try to make new friends, I feel like they are reluctant to be friends.