What are some signs that you’re being true to yourself in a relationship, especially about big decisions like having kids?

Have you ever felt empty and you don't have any idea what is missing?
What's the most chaotic work environment you've experienced that led you to say "I quit" immediately?
I have been been dreaming about this guy for two years now, I thought when time goes by it will stop but it doesn't. What can be the course of this?