Is it more satisfying to confront someone who hurt you, or to play it cool and let them feel awkward?

My boyfriend is going for coffee with an old friend who’s a girl. She is alone and won’t invite me or her boyfriend. What should I do?
Marjorie Taylor Greene is encouraging anti-government conspiracy nuts to attack television statioons in Oklahoma, targeting their weather radar and satellite transmission dishes calling them "weather weapons". How is she still in Congress?