How do I handle the pressure to trust someone again when I’m not ready yet?

If my partner doesn't mind my natural look but I still feel insecure, how should I handle it?
What should I do if I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years, and every time I've talked to him about getting married, he says I'm just pressuring him?
How can people lost trust in politics be regained and the politics of the extreme counter?
How can we use the law of attraction to attract the right partner in our lives?