For INFJs, what are the signs that someone has genuinely changed enough to warrant reopening a previously closed door?

If conscription comes back and you are conscripted, will you likely be conscripted with the other conscripted people of your town if you are from a small town?
Why do some people feel pressured to change their religion for love, and how can they resist this pressure while keeping the relationship?
Why do some inexperienced entrepreneurs succeed on a tight budget while others with more resources fail?