What can I do when my twin flame seems unwilling to leave their comfort zone, but I feel the journey guiding us together?

There are many black politicians in the Republican party. Why are Democrats calling everyone else racist? Do they need racists to scapegoat with?
How do you balance spiritual connections with real-life circumstances that seem to push you further away from your twin flame?
How do you navigate being spiritually connected to a twin flame who seems to be moving in a different direction, like planning to marry someone else?