Why do some seniors dread going into a nursing home and some handle it without any problems?

My boyfriend paid for dates and was sweet but now is staying with his parents (3 hours away) over summer with no effort to see me he only wants to FaceTime. His parents hate me. Does he not like me anymore?
My BF told me to “see where it goes” even after telling him that I wanted to be long term on his dating profile. It also says the same. Does he not take me seriously?