How do you enjoy music from artists whose personal views you strongly disagree with?

How do you know you are not enough & need others to use as a crouch? How would you feel if someone takes the crouch away, which forces you to stand on your feet or would you want to fall for sympathy?
Can a person with high self-esteem be happy in a relationship with a partner who has low self-esteem without addressing their own self-esteem issues?