How do you focus on self-healing while dealing with a deep spiritual connection to someone?

My fiancée, who has been to prison twice already, has just caught 6 new felonies, non-violent, drug charges. His past prison sentences have been 2/4 years. What should we expect this time?
If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be and how long do you think you'd survive?