What matters most to you in a relationship with someone?

Not at all...men are very physical and then the personality adds to it, whereas women look at the personality first and the sexual part follows. It's the mars venus thing.

@OWise1: im talking from my own experiences..being a man,i have no clue of the female mindset😊 I just have to keep myself interested in my partner sexually ,otherwise it's a lost case..however,if the attractiveness pairs with a terrible personality,it's also a major problem

@Traubi: I understand and by the same token, the pendulum swings both ways...physical attraction is important ( maybe not as much as for men but nonetheless important) for women too...but if the man is an a** and has no compassion etc...it's a no go.

@OWise1: i guess it's a healthy balance im looking for then 🤔😊

@Traubi: Join my club. :) It takes two to tango and if you do so beautifully, well, the dance goes well. :)

@OWise1: honestly,after two failed marriages I stopped looking...the door is always open to someone that can flip my world upside down but if nobody walks in ever again,im ok with that too

@Traubi: They say it is the uncertain in which anything can happen. So never say never and just enjoy life. :)

@OWise1: i came to the same conclusion 😊 I wish you all the best!

@Traubi: And to you as well :)