Ladies and Gents: Do you buy into the response or excuse that you can love many people the same way at the same time?

Love is a very strong word and has different connotations depending on the relationship itself. But seriously, when it's a monogamous relationship, handing someone the line that you can love many people at the same time and using it as a means to escape getting caught from cheating somehow does not work.

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SW-User

No. It's another excuse to cheat.

OWise1 · F

exactly and it's an insult to the person receiving the response as though the person was stupid!

luckranger71 · 51-55, M

What QofQ said. A cheater's way of eating more cake.

OWise1 · F

It's sickening

Shayla · F

I believe in polyamory, and choose to live that lifestyle. A major difference is the honest communication. Hiding a lover isn't poly, it's cheating.

OWise1 · F

Exactly.

SW-User

No, but I believe you never love the same way with someone else. Each experience changes you and the way you love going forward. I don't buy into the loving two people at once in the same way. You may love one as a friend and the other as a lover but one is always more always

OWise1 · F

Nicely stated.

MrFoxx · 31-35, M

I think it is an excuse. Having multiple sex partners is usually because they are hiding a bigger emotional issue that is unresolved.

OWise1 · F

I think so too and some people literally fear finding out what true love is all about.

BeautifulSurprise · 41-45, F

Interesting..

MrFoxx · 31-35, M

What I mean by multiple is different sex partners on a constant basis. They are searching for something that needs fixing inside. Men and women do this.

xRedx · M

Of course it doesn't. Personally, I don't like cheaters one bit.

OWise1 · F

I know what you mean...it's like why can't people just be up front. If they are polyamorous, just say so...but don't use a weak excuse to justify wrongful behavior.

xRedx · M

Exactly. It's complete garbage. I'm very traditional. If I get married, which I do want to, it's strictly going to be monogamous.

BeautifulSurprise · 41-45, F

Hmm..that is something to think about.

bijouxbroussard · F

[b]I[/b] can't do it; I can't speak for others' abilities, although someone who tells me he's capable of loving me and several others is free to go love the others and leave [b]me[/b] alone. I require a bit more of a commitment.

OWise1 · F

I am right with you there.....tells you there is not enough respect/feelings for whomever to justify a relationship with you.

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