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How do waitresses pull off that bright, bubbly demeanor so well?

Are you guys genuinely happy or just a world class actor?

When you’re in your 20s, people treat you like you’re committing a crime if you aren’t happy go lucky.

I feel fundamentally defunct as a woman because I’m not like that. And if I do try to force a smile, I look like I’m being held hostage

I can receive a compliment and yet still sometimes struggle to smile. I’m tired of causing people to feel awkward/unliked when they’re talking to me. So what’s the secret? Coke? Caffeine shot straight through the veins?
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It is called wanting a big tip.
deciblues · 26-30, F
@Sojournersoul Sure, but how do they smile so convincingly? I wish I had that skill
deciblues · 26-30, F
Even when I spent time as a customer service employee, I couldn’t pull it off
@deciblues Getting paid to smile. Only have to do it a few minutes for each customers.