Are there people who travel even though they do not enjoy it, but feel obligated to do so?

In the beginning of how we met, she got time to talk me day and night, midnight dawn, nowadays she has stopped and if I tried that, she says I am worrying her and do I want to control her life?
What do I do? I was just cheated on and manipulated for months. Known for a few weeks. A guy friend wants to date me no matter what I say.

What are some reasons why adults with Aspergers may feel uncomfortable being themselves in public? How can they overcome this feeling?