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@mysteryespresso Try this:

When you two are alone speak in a calm soothing voice and say:

"Honey, I love you and am in love with you. I loved your tender touch and passionate kisses. I was hoping that we would always be together through thick and thin just as we promised each other when we gazed into each other's eyes and said our marriage vows before our families and friends. But now, I realize that I can't make you happy and fulfill your needs and desires in a lover. That really makes me sad and depressed, and since I want you to always be happy, I will set you free from me so that you will be able to enjoy your life and find real happiness with your girlfriend.

So, let's get started getting a divorce within the next hour. This is a community property State so we will each get half of our assets and you will get 100% of your freedom from me.

Best wishes on the next phase of your life."

@mysteryespresso by touch was it meaningless or more intimate