Can u tell me what's the number one reason why people cheat ? ❤️💔

Hello ladies and gentlemen. Today we are going to talk about [b]infidelity.[/b] Or [b]cheating.[/b] Why do you believe that people [b]cheat[/b] in
relationships. Married or just a normal relationship, this is what people do. I believe the number [b]one[/b] reason for this is because some people are just simply [b]bored.[/b] And when that exciting person comes along, they are perfect for that [b]moment.[/b] Right ? Of course, its the in the
[b]moment[/b] that people get caught up in. It has nothing to do with [b]love.[/b] I also believe that because we are by nature [b]non monogamous[/b] beings this is what occurs. I just posted a video below that gives some [b]specific[/b] reasons as to why people [b]cheat.[/b] The first [b]5[/b] minutes says it all.
And if you have been a [b]victim[/b] of this, then you know exactly what I mean. Now, let me ask you this question. What do you believe is the
number [b]one[/b] reason why there is infidelity in relationships. Give us your answer please. The floor is yours. Best answer wins. ☺️

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Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F Best Comment

Because they are lonely. And they no longer feel loved by their partner

Montanaman · M

Takes a breath...😮‍💨

Love. Devotion. Surrender...

I've been married now for over 34 years.

I've never physically cheated.
Online? Yes. And by my wife's definition, still cheating.
Why? Because I took that personal intimacy into another relationship. So be it online, or in-person, still betrayal. Secrets and lies.

And the hurt, the heartbreak, and broken trust is just as devastating. Just as hard to overcome as if I was sleeping with another woman physically.

Let me tell you, the hurt you cause your significant other when you cheat, is unimaginable. It's like your having your whole insides ripped out of you.

People are human, and they will make mistakes along the way in a relationship.
There will be moments of boredom, of stupid fantasies with seemingly uncontrollable desires.
But a man's got to know his limitations.
And be honest enough with himself, strong enough, to keep them in check.
But what keeps the relationship going after, is what you've experienced together throughout the years. What you've built together is memories, and it's unfathomable to think that they don't matter, that they're not worth saving in your heart.

My wife, knows who she is, knows what she wants. And after 34 years, so do I.
There's not another woman in the entire world that loves me more. Respects me more, trusts me more, that she tells me everyday, every night that I'm her world.

And I feel it. It's honest and real. How could I fuck that up? Why would I fuck that kind of true love up?
Again, we're all human, we all have moments of boredom, and fantasies that we ponder on
It's my heart that knows what true love is, and it's her heart that beats insync with mine.

You just have to recognize what being faithful means and what it's worth. I don't believe that humans are non-monogamous. If that were true, the pain and heartbreak and jealousy would be a non-emotion.

My son's soon to be ex-wife, never gave it a chance. The vows meant nothing.
She's a runner. Always will be. And she's lost more than she can fathom. Her man, That loves her truly. Us, my wife and I, and sadly, her two children.
I hope the sex was worth it.
Merry fucking Christmas.

...And
So, I have the perfect partner to live my life to the end with. Grow old together, make memories together and share true love and devotion. It's worth it. It's what All of us desire in the end.

Love. Devotion. Surrender. ❤️💞💗

An honest, real moment I share with you.
-The wisdom according to Montana. 💗😎

And Happy Birthday to My Wife, turns 54 tomorrow. 🥰

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

Some do because they feel something is lacking in their relationship, but something (most likely fear) keeps them from leaving their current partner… and so they cheat

Some do because they just don’t care about anyone but themselves and feel they won’t get caught

Some do out of boredom/lack of intimacy in current relationship (but I suppose that falls into the first thing I said)

Some do while not in right mindset (drunk/high/unstable)

I’m sure there are all sorts of reasons I can’t even think of, or that people can come up with to justify it for themselves/others.

All I can say is people make mistakes, and things aren’t always black or white (not that I’m saying it’s ok)