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Do u believe that being a nice person will get u stepped on ? 鉁煠斺湪 馃ゾ

Greetings ladies and gentlemen. Sit down for a minute. Mr [b]Z[/b] wants to talk to you about something important. It's called being [b]nice. [/b] How many of you here have been too[b] nice [/b] to people only to be stepped on and forgotten. Maybe you have been [b]overlooked[/b] or [b]taken advantage of[/b] simply for being [b]nice. [/b] You thought that the person would at least be considerate because of your [b] generosity.[/b] But it turned out to be the exact opposite. How does that make you feel ? To know that you did all of that for nothing. It was all done in [b]vain. [/b]
And now perhaps you trust noone because you have been let down so many times. You're [b]numb.[/b] You're [b]guarded.[/b] And you just don't care anymore. How many of you here can relate to what I am saying here today .
This post has been inspired by [b]Nerdy Potato [/b] 馃. Are you tired of being [b]nice.[/b]
Best answer wins. 馃檪鉁ㄢ湪

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dale74M
Happens all the time
Zonuss41-45, M
@dale74 Explain.
dale74M
@Zonuss i am always nice and always get pushed back. My current job just got a new supervisor now I have run the department without a supervisor for the last year and a half. She told me at the first of the year i will be knocked back to part time and will have to take a 20% pay cut. The person who put her in charge she came up with the idea of changing my hours and my pay so she could get a $15,000 pay increase. I told her i dont think that is fair. She said it is what it is. The sr vp told me he know and dont worry we will move you departments. So i am mot sure what is going on yet but i know she doesn't know 10% of the stuff i do.
Zonuss41-45, M
@dale74 Oh I see what you are saying. They believe you value your job over fairness. So you'll just have to accept the fact and take it.
dale74M
@Zonuss well some do but but i will know more in 3 weeks i have heard they are making a different job and the new mgr of the department i am in will be stuck with it all on her own.