Do u ever regret letting someone u love.... go ? 馃 馃挃
Like an [b]old flame.[/b] Or an old [b]friend.[/b] An ex [b]lover.[/b] A former [b]bestie.[/b]
You think about all the [b] good [/b] and [b]bad[/b] times you had. What qualities you liked along with the ones you dislike. Their ways. Their personality. Their words. You probably miss them sometimes. You probably wish they were still here. Do you or have you [b]regretted[/b] letting someone go in your life at all. Best answer wins. 鈽猴笍
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Ive found it very hard to let go of anyone over the years, and often tried to hang on for dear life when there was nothing left to hold on to. It hurts and i didnt ever handle it well. But, once its done and im out the other side, the regret was always that i didnt let go soon, and id ask myself why i wasted so much time an energy. In recent years, its gotten easier to jyst let things slide. If its done its done....no regrets.
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@RubySoo You're lucky/gifted/blessed in this sense - you can finally let all of it go. I can't eliminate any wrong or missed opportunity from my mind. All my best memories are of the what-should've-been.
@SW-User oh believe me, i felt like you my whole life, until very recently. I refused to toughen up. Ive always been soft hearted, forgiving and believed live lasts forever. I liked being that way..
This last 6 years or so ive learned so much about friendships, relationships, and how and why people treat each other how they do. Ive learned the hard way, but.....i have learned. If people dont want me around....it really is their loss. I wont beg anyone to stay ever again.
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@RubySoo Bottom line - I'm in no way religious but what would Jesus do? What price your soul? Be yourself or become as those you are not?
