Are you uptight about your preferences in the opposite s3x?
"I only date men who are 6 feet or taller!"
"I only have s3x with circumcised men."
"I only like men who shave down there."
"I only date men who have beards."
"I'll only date a man if he pays for all my stuff."
"I only have s3x with men who have 8,9,10 inch c0cks."
"I only date white/black/caucasian/arab/asian men."
"I only date men who are 5,10,15,20,30 years older."
Like some of these preferences are understandable, and they can be worked on. But others are just too much. Why would you limit yourself to such options? You never know how good things might be if you tried someone different.
It's like men saying,
"I only date women with big boobs or big ass."
and
"I only date women who'll do an^l."
and
"I only date slim women."
and
"I only date younger women."
and
"I only date pretty women."
etc
I think it's ridiculous. Step outside your preferences. Just because you like something doesn't mean you can't like the alternatives.
Have you ever fallen in love?
Like truly in love? Madly in love?
It could be with the most unexpected person ever. Someone you never thought you could ever fall in love with. Physically, they might not be upto your preferences, but mentally, emotionally, once you're hooked, none of the physical stuff would even matter. In fact, you might love them even more for being the way they are. Once you start talking to them, getting to know them, spending time with them, laughing at their jokes, giggling at their silliness, smiling at their words of affection, blushing... the spark of love lights up in your heart, once you get those warm fuzzy feelings, you start thinking about them, daydreaming about them, you want to spend more time with them, and you start missing them, more and more, until they're all you think about?
In love, none of the physical stuff would even matter - big b00bs, small b00bs, big d!ck, average d!ck, big bvtt, small bvtt, long hair, short hair, bald head, big nose, sharp nose, big lips, small lips, fat ^ss, sk!nny ^ss - none of it would matter.
Once you're in love, you'd get to appreciate them so much more, that even a gaze, even a smile, even a wink, even just a touch, would send shivers down your spine.
Yeah, that's love.
That's what you need. Not big d!cks or shaved pvssies or big b00bs or long hair or whatever. You need love.
There are so many people who are getting a lot of s3x. Multiple partners, lots of s3x toys, lots of men chasing them etc.
But people come and go. And they're not fulfilled. They're not happy.
Know why?
Love. They're missing love. If they just had love, they'd get the rest of the package that comes with it, and it would be more than enough to satisfy all their wants and needs and desires. They wouldn't want anything more. They wouldn't ask for anything more.
"I only have s3x with circumcised men."
"I only like men who shave down there."
"I only date men who have beards."
"I'll only date a man if he pays for all my stuff."
"I only have s3x with men who have 8,9,10 inch c0cks."
"I only date white/black/caucasian/arab/asian men."
"I only date men who are 5,10,15,20,30 years older."
Like some of these preferences are understandable, and they can be worked on. But others are just too much. Why would you limit yourself to such options? You never know how good things might be if you tried someone different.
It's like men saying,
"I only date women with big boobs or big ass."
and
"I only date women who'll do an^l."
and
"I only date slim women."
and
"I only date younger women."
and
"I only date pretty women."
etc
I think it's ridiculous. Step outside your preferences. Just because you like something doesn't mean you can't like the alternatives.
Have you ever fallen in love?
Like truly in love? Madly in love?
It could be with the most unexpected person ever. Someone you never thought you could ever fall in love with. Physically, they might not be upto your preferences, but mentally, emotionally, once you're hooked, none of the physical stuff would even matter. In fact, you might love them even more for being the way they are. Once you start talking to them, getting to know them, spending time with them, laughing at their jokes, giggling at their silliness, smiling at their words of affection, blushing... the spark of love lights up in your heart, once you get those warm fuzzy feelings, you start thinking about them, daydreaming about them, you want to spend more time with them, and you start missing them, more and more, until they're all you think about?
In love, none of the physical stuff would even matter - big b00bs, small b00bs, big d!ck, average d!ck, big bvtt, small bvtt, long hair, short hair, bald head, big nose, sharp nose, big lips, small lips, fat ^ss, sk!nny ^ss - none of it would matter.
Once you're in love, you'd get to appreciate them so much more, that even a gaze, even a smile, even a wink, even just a touch, would send shivers down your spine.
Yeah, that's love.
That's what you need. Not big d!cks or shaved pvssies or big b00bs or long hair or whatever. You need love.
There are so many people who are getting a lot of s3x. Multiple partners, lots of s3x toys, lots of men chasing them etc.
But people come and go. And they're not fulfilled. They're not happy.
Know why?
Love. They're missing love. If they just had love, they'd get the rest of the package that comes with it, and it would be more than enough to satisfy all their wants and needs and desires. They wouldn't want anything more. They wouldn't ask for anything more.
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