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What's the biggest red flag you ignored in a relationship?

What were some of the GLARING red flags that you ignored about someone you wound up in a relationship with?
The kind that were really bright neon signs saying "NO GOOD, STAY AWAY", but you ignored anyway or just didnt notice for some reason.
Have you ever ignored a red flag in a previous relationship?
And, how many red flags do you allow someone you're dating before you finally decide it's time to part ways? Has anyone ever ignored red flags and NOT regretted it?
Ignored or talked about it and moved on. Is it possible? What's your "I can't believe I ignored that red flag" story in dating?
I don't mean necessarily in a long term relationship, but when you're getting to know someone and the red flag becomes more and more evident as time goes on. Buuuut because you're attracted to them and like spending time with them, you don't put as much weight as you should onto the issue. What are some of the relationship red flags you ignored early on?
The one that stands out to me of all of my relationships is the time I was out with a new boyfriend. We were trying to find parking in a crowded lot. He has a handicap parking pass for when his dad is with him. He seriously suggested we use it so we would not have to park far away.
He turned out to be a self-centered (surprise!) little shit. Also, a habitual cheater. What's the biggest red flag you've ignored because the sex was good?
What red flags did you ignore at the time, and look back now with shame? What’s a red flag that you ignored in a significant other, only to realize it was a bigger deal later? What red flags did you ignore in a previous relationship but you shouldn't have? What's a HUGE red flag in a relationship that you've ignored and regretted later? What red flag are you happy that you ignored in your SO? Ladies, what red flags did you ignore while dating your SO, and now DON'T regret ignoring?
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SammyJo · 51-55, F
Pretty much just jealousy. That was the main one, on both sides....
Nothing of the sort. I knew it all. Since beginning.
Just that I was sure that I could change situations but I took time to grow up when situations forced me to change.
All's good!
One learns to get up only after falling.

 
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