Do u believe it's ok for a man to hit a woman "if" it's self defense ? 🥊

Now some of you may have already seen this video right here recently. Its sad right ? So many people out here giving in to that negative energy that I was talking about before. And some are so sucked in that they cannot help but be this way.
What we have here are two issues that should and could be addressed. One here we have an African American male.
Second we have a Caucasian [b]Latina female. Ok here we go again. You have gender and then you have race.
In this video you see the woman actually hitting the man first. He is the employee, she is the customer. What do you think ?
Did he have a right to hit this woman back ? Or should he have just reported her to the authorities instead. Now you all know how I feel about domestic violence. I do not think it is fine for a man to hit a woman. But I do realize that you can't just run up to people and start attacking them out of nowhere for no reason at all. Some people will hurt you, do you understand me. Are we clear ? Good. What do you think about this ? Do you believe that it is ok for a man to hit a woman if it is self defense only. Yes or no. Explain why please. Best answer wins. 🙂

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lovelywarpedlemon

#1 this is Fox News so i immediately question how they've presented the videos. I'd like to see an unedited version. #2, Security should have separated them & escorted her out before the problem escalated. #3 In most cases a woman can usually be easily subdued in a wrestling hold or similar, so there is usually no need for violence beyond holding her so that more violence doesn't take place. But the situation in the video could have been prevented.

Zonuss · 46-50, M

@lovelywarpedlemon The second video was more realistic. It's obvious to most people what happened here. But this is life. Things happen.

lovelywarpedlemon

@Zonuss yeah it's sad 🖤

Caroline259 · 56-60, F

@lovelywarpedlemon

Security should have separated them & escorted her out before the problem escalated.

Would they though? It's fairly common practice to automatically take the woman's side.

lovelywarpedlemon

@Caroline259 do you have evidence that supports your claim? I didn't ask for your opinion but feel free to entertain us, unless you're full of hot air.

Caroline259 · 56-60, F

@lovelywarpedlemon Only my own observations. I'm a paramedic and have attended several domestic abuse incidents involving male victims of female aggressors. In fact, I attended one last week. It's very rare that the police take action against the female. My own husband is a survivor of domestic abuse from a previous marriage. Whenever he tried to report it to the police he was invariably dismissed with "it's not a police matter" or "there are no witnesses" or, if there were witnesses, "they're your friends so can't be witnesses". Things are slowly getting better for abused men but we stil have a long way to go.

lovelywarpedlemon

@Caroline259 Okay so write your own comnent & tell your own story instead of trying to silence me.

Sharon · F

@lovelywarpedlemon How is @Caroline259 trying to silence you? All she did was point out the fact that the authorities usually just take the woman's side. You even explicitly invited her to reply.

lovelywarpedlemon

@Sharon It's her opinion based on her experiences.

Sharon · F

@lovelywarpedlemon It's not just opinion if it's based on what she's witnessed.

lovelywarpedlemon

@Sharon It's her opinion based on her experiences. lol I don't share the experience nor the same opinion.

Caroline259 · 56-60, F

@lovelywarpedlemon

tell your own story instead of trying to silence me.

I'm not trying to silence you, I'm just reporting what I've personally witnessed and questioning whether security would have taken action against her in this case. As @Sharon said, you invited me to expand my comments.

The fact that you have not seen or experienced what I have does not invalidate my experiences. I did not express an opinion either.

I've made a few posts on the subject of women attacking men, based on my own observations and what my husband (himself a survivor of domestic abuse in a previous relationship) has reported.

lovelywarpedlemon

@Caroline259 OK Felicia 🤮