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Calmer focusing on the attitude of a person. I don't take many situations as personally. I realize each of us are in different stages in life, wants & needs. Quite a bit more flexible with other people. I applaud ppl that has come through adversity. Not my past, or ppl controls me. Independent and feels awesome. Nowadays, so much more adversity each day is a blessing.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
Counselling has helped massively.
And repairing the relationship I had with my father.
I talked to him about a lot and I also presented my truth.
It was so freeing.
And quite the eye opener to him about the reasons why we fell out.
I'm still kind but I'm a little wiser now and understand that some people just aren't my people and that's OK.
Yes we live in a world where people make it seem like you can't survive unless you're apart of something but actually it's the opposite.
Those people are the most stressed, anxious and confused in society.
Yes I have my calmer deposition due to my antidepressants but it's kind of needed especially since there are so many people focused on using "psychology" to manipulate and undermine others.
It allows me to pause and assess what's happening without the anxiety, yes I may write about it but being able to articulate what's going on is far better than reacting in fight or flight mode.
And repairing the relationship I had with my father.
I talked to him about a lot and I also presented my truth.
It was so freeing.
And quite the eye opener to him about the reasons why we fell out.
I'm still kind but I'm a little wiser now and understand that some people just aren't my people and that's OK.
Yes we live in a world where people make it seem like you can't survive unless you're apart of something but actually it's the opposite.
Those people are the most stressed, anxious and confused in society.
Yes I have my calmer deposition due to my antidepressants but it's kind of needed especially since there are so many people focused on using "psychology" to manipulate and undermine others.
It allows me to pause and assess what's happening without the anxiety, yes I may write about it but being able to articulate what's going on is far better than reacting in fight or flight mode.
Fairydust · F
Definitely grown, It’s got so much better, learnt a lot, especially about myself, leaving my toxic marriage, healing from it. 😌
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Dewkissedrose · 46-50, F
I’ve become stronger in myself and won’t let people just run over me.
PhoenixPhail · M
It's evolved more in the past few years than during any others.
Most changes have to do with choosing whether to to stay around or not with my discomfort of what's going on in our world, and my discomfort of what's going on with me, physically and spiritually. The choice is working on me in a big way. Conditions have changed my mind/personality/attitude/character a lot.
Most changes have to do with choosing whether to to stay around or not with my discomfort of what's going on in our world, and my discomfort of what's going on with me, physically and spiritually. The choice is working on me in a big way. Conditions have changed my mind/personality/attitude/character a lot.
PassingThrough · 46-50, M
I’ve found some peace in certain places of my life where I felt I was always fighting an uphill battle constantly. Learning from mistakes. I let the past finally go by being honest with myself over what ifs I could never put to rest.
BrownEyedElliex · 18-21, F
To be honest, I just got more mature. What about you?
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
@BrownEyedElliex I can't
BrownEyedElliex · 18-21, F
@rrraksamam Well... you don't have to if you don't want to... but if you want to, just take baby steps at first.
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
@BrownEyedElliex I've done it all before.
BiasForAction · M
I have changed quite a bit. When I was a kid, I thought when one becomes an adult, they cease to change/evolve/grow. Thank goodness I was wrong.
InHeaven · F
It only changed cause I came to God. Honestly, I’d be same same old otherwise, terrible self destructive etc
SW-User
Yes more forgetful and get dizzy alot. Keep to myself even more..
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Oster1 · M
No. I strive to evolve, every day.
Chickie · F
I realized that I needed to defend myself more because no one else does it for me and I cut off shit people from my life. I learn to be ruthless and smarter.