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Have u ever had somene who was (jealous) of u and your lover ?

Or spouse. I definitely have experienced this in my lifetime, and even recently. 🙂 Was it a 3 way situation or love triangle ? Was it an ex ? Was it a family member ? Was it a friend ? Was it an online or offline relationship ?
Sometimes when you are with someone that somebody else wants it can be a bit dramatic.
It can even become violent. Some people will do absolutely anything to obtain someone if it means securing their own selfish needs or happiness. What do you think ? Have you ever had someone who was jealous of you and the person that you were with or loved.

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As much as possible, I do my best to avoid situations with jealous people.

It doesn’t matter if it is warranted or not, it is best to remove myself from the situation to avoid further conflict.

Have I ever felt jealous? It is not common, but of course I’ve experienced that. And when that happened, my instinct was not to fight or cause trouble, but to remove myself from the situation that was making me jealous. This gives me space to think about my emotions : why? What triggered it?
WhateverWorks · 36-40
Definitely agree with this @CookieCrumbs
@WhateverWorks
We can’t change people’s behavior. We can only manage our own.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@CookieCrumbs I agree.
Lostpoet · M
Not really, I've never really had a serious relationship where marriage was discussed (except my online thing with Lissa). And I think it's all fair and games in love and war until marriage and then it should be permanent no matter what.

There are a lot of women and people are mostly alike. I can't say I've never fallen in love with someone that was dating another person, but I'm also not a homewrecker or cock blocker, so I've never caused trouble like that.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Lostpoet Oh cool. Don't be a blocker.
Rhode57 · 56-60, M
Yes it was a friend I thought I could trust but sadly was so jelous that she told my ex we were having an affair and then told one of our other friends if we split she would happily take me in . Our relationship was strained as it was and she didnt help it . I shut her out of our lives but I dont think my ex really ever believed me when I told her it hadnt happened .
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@Rhode57 Unforgivable
JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
Yes, especially after hearing her orgasmic squealing
exexec · 61-69, C
Several guys were jealous of the relationship shared between my girlfriend/future wife and me when we were in college. Two of them tried to get us to break up, but they failed.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@exexec Wow.
MaLuna87MagiaLuna · 36-40, F
I have had many jealous of me and two of them were my spouse, never had this jealousy of me and my spouse and our lives together in a way people would want the same life like ours, if they got jealous of wanting a wonderful relationship like my life, then let them get jealous, but why get jealous on someone who has been divorced twice and body shamed a lot and being judged without getting to know me? If you know what I have been going through, you will then say “oh God! And we thought her life was wonderful”.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I really don’t know. I just know that I’m very lucky and very happy. Hopefully the happiness I exude makes others comfortable being around me. That’s really all I control.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Adogslife Thanks for responding.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
I have. It unfortunate. Usually I distance myself from jealous people though. The drama and destructiveness is too problem.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@WhateverWorks I agree.
Outdoorfreedom · 56-60, M
Yes a couple of them. I think they are over it. Fortunately it hasn't got anyone in trouble.
No drama for me. I let players take all the onus.

Simple as that.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@sspec 🙄🙄
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
Every time.
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
@Zonuss We're not happy until you're not happy kind of thing?
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@FloorGenAdm That seems a bit immature for anyone to take on that mentality.
Is this whats going on in your current relationship ?
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
@Zonuss Water under the bridge. 🌉
SW-User
Not sure ...i don't notice tbh
REMsleep · 41-45, F
No. In my early naive days I unknowingly dated a few cheaters that didn't take me seriously so unknowingly they had something going on already with another girl that they were off and on with and this created probably hurt and jealousy in me once I would find some picture or some rumor or hear a voicemail or the girl turn up pregnant.
I thought that not being enough for someone meant a deficiency with me somehow.
Now a days I hope that most young ladies are wiser. I haven't had relationship drama in many years.
Well of course and countless times. And it's usually a drama queen.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@IndianaJoes Have you ever dated a drama queen before ?
@Zonuss of course I have... Haven't we all? I learned to try to weed them out as the #1 red flag. Most know it and try to hide it. The moment I notice she is so gone so fast that she gets friction burns on her cheeks from the speed.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@IndianaJoes Yes. No more drama. 😂
caesar7 · 61-69, M

 
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