Do u fear or worry about being disliked by others ? 🤔🧐
Hello friends and neighbors. It is the antagonistic one Mr Z. Now we all know that some people fear rejection. . Or have a fear of being alone. But what about the fear of being disliked or hated. I am sure there is someone here on Earth 🌎 who feels that way about you. Does it matter to you? It surely does not matter to me. Idgaf. I'm me. Do you fear being disliked or hated by others. Answers please. Best answer will win. 🙂.
I've always believed that those certain individuals that hate so passionately for no reason whatsoever, have some serious issues. Unless they actually know you personally or you've done something to hurt, anger, or genuinely tick them off. I try to avoid confrontational and aggressive individuals, they're obviously looking to start an argument.
I can genuinely dislike someone if they are cruel, nasty, cold, narcissistic individuals who seem to be devoid of warmth or compassion. I honestly don't waste my time and energy on haters. I've always tried to be the best person I know how to be, honest, warm and compassionate. I figure if someone doesn't like me for whatever their reasons, it's their prerogative.
As a teenager I did but after 30 I stopped caring. If someone doesn’t like me that’s on them, not me
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If I know they dislike me, it's uncomfortable for me to be around them. But it's not a fear it's acceptance.
Hate, Idk about having real haters for now and it's not something I care about now, just if I considered close and they ended up like that with me. I'd keep the distance.
I think humans are social creatures, even psychopaths will go out of their way to have humans in their life even if it's using them. It does seem ironic that we as a species are social even when we purposely try not to be. So on some level everyone worries even if on a subconscious level, we will look for validation in SOME sort of small way, being on SW, there's actually a lot of people trying to validate themselves to total strangers within their group dynamics.
For me personally, I do worry, I also care about people way more than I let on. But that caring stops once I sense I'm being manipulated or that the person is either overtly aggressive or passive aggressive.
I am changing. My beloveds' dislike for any aspect of my life was initially concerning for me but with time, now I see the bigger picture and accept what I can't change. This helps me mellow down more than earlier with All of Them while we are conversing.
I’d think I was doing something wrong if no one hated me or what I stand for. I remember reading what Jesus said: “If the world hates you, just remember that it has hated me before it hated you.“
Nah, i don't pay attention to that. Besides it's absurd to think i would please every person I've met or even long time friends. As long as i don't get punched in the face, I'm good 😏
I've been hated by a few all my life.. but I'm at the age now where i couldn't give a monkeys ass who likes me or not..aslong as the people i care about like me i don't worry about it
