What makes us attracted to each other ?

Love, lust, whatever people might call it .
Of all people you connect with. all the sudden , there is that one that takes your breath away .
You are hooked !
They might not even be your usual type !
Why does it happen?

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Peaches · F

I don't know, but what scares me is how I would fall for the ones that treated me like I was treated at home....🥺I would be attracted to them before I even knew they were mean?!

solitaire · 41-45, F

That's cos of our crappy childhood experiences. We get attracted to the wrong ones. Happened to me last year @Peaches

Peaches · F

@solitaire It took me years of therapy to undo all the damage from my childhood. The first thing my therapist said in a group meeting I used to go to was, "you'll more often than not find yourself drawn to the types of people you are trying to run away from"?!🥺 Lesson learned!

solitaire · 41-45, F

@Peaches I've found myself drawn to unavailable men as far as relationships are concerned

Peaches · F

@solitaire Mine where as mean as my mother until I realized what was happening and break the chain! ⛓️💥