What makes us attracted to each other ?

Love, lust, whatever people might call it .
Of all people you connect with. all the sudden , there is that one that takes your breath away .
You are hooked !
They might not even be your usual type !
Why does it happen?

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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

When ever I wonder things like this I try to see it from caveman Dains perspective and try to translate it into sense using what life has already taught me. Mixed together I come up with some pretty interesting points.
Males want fertile females to carry on their genes. Biology. Strong so they can survive birth and take care of the young.
Society, some what, dictates what is considered suitable with in your grasp.
So caveman wants one thing and society sets limits on what would be considered acceptable.
Caveman then has to search to find available, suited for the task and lets not forget willing.
Your caveman/woman brain does most of the work. It has triggers that signal potential mates. Then society filters availability of possibilities.
When cave person brain finds what it considers a contender, rational brain ways the other aspects and then makes a choice.
The choice then shoots to your frontal lobes and juices start to flow.
Bang. There it is in a nutshell. LOL