How about some old fashioned courtesy!

I think none of approached a site like this with expectation of the rules we live by in real life. Having said that, would it hurt to have some old fashioned courtesy?

Example. This week I spoke to someone whonwas fun and sexy and we had a very good couple of days chatting. She has subsequently ignored my messages, which I know she has seen as her green light is only on when she is there, she told me this. All of this is absolutely fine but I would rather someone said, I don't want to talk for a while...I hope you understand etc.

It's not really that difficult and take a short thirty seconds to type. Come on guys, be kind!

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Carazaa · F

I agree we have to be curteous but sometimes people get involved with another conversation or just fall asleep, etc.

And I think it is also courteous to not expect people to respond quickly and to jump to conclusions too fast. There is nothing worse in friendships when people get mad at you or possessive.

It is very attractive though to say something like. Hey I missed talking to you, or if a friend shares a positive feeling. That can increase interest.🙂

If someone is rude it can also help to ask "Are you mad at me? Did I do something to upset you?" No one is perfect, and we can all be more gracious and forgiving I think.