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Are you fair to yourself??

I know that in my life I've had my share of failure ...

I have made so many mistakes....

My trust on me was damages ... on others too....

So many things that never worked out the way I wanted them to....

At some point I felt very bad about myself.


I also remember moments when life felt so good.... when I was proud of myself.

I remember moments in which I followed my heart, and did what I wanted to do.

My past is gone.... My future, yet to come, and my present is here, already.

Life is never the way we want it to be, but as they say, such is life......

We are not perfect, we have flaws, we make mistakes, we fail ourselves and others.

We can try again to do better.

We are good beings, and need not to blame ourselves for our mistakes. We deserve to be loved, by ourselves and others.

We are beautiful in our own ways

fernie2 · Best Comment
After 6 decades of self loathing, self destructing and bad decisions, I can actually say, out loud to myself, "I love you" I like me and can finally, comfortably say positive things about me. It took some work and self-reflection but, worth every bit of it. We all have the ability to love ourselves.

Oh God!! This makes me love you even more... 🤗🤗❤
fernie2 ·
[@1067,Soossie] You are the best Soossie! TY for BC

Iamonfire666 · 36-40, F
This is great. I know I can be pretty hard on myself at times but I am trying to be nicer.

Please be more gentle to yourself.... we do what we can... 🤗🤗🌹
Iamonfire666 · 36-40, F
[@1067,Soossie] thank you, I am trying 💕
Rooster · M
Very nice! I just wish I could relax more instead of being so hyper.
Life is like a bed of roses but watch out for the pricks.😄

True... watch for the pricks but dont let them scare you or bring you down... 🤗🤗
Rooster · M
[@1067,Soossie] Never!!!
Purplehaze78 · 41-45, F
We all deserve love and kindness and the best ones are from ourselves 😊

So very true... thank you... 🌹🌹
Purplehaze78 · 41-45, F
[@1067,Soossie] you're welcome, and thank you for sharing a beautiful message 🤗

Mamapolo2016 · 70-79, F
Someone once said to me, "I love making mistakes, but I try not to make the same one twice."

Beautiful thought... thank you dear Mamapolo for sharing.... 🤗🤗🌹
Noble · 51-55, M
You are not only wonderful, but deeply insightful but n your reflection and forward-thinking. 🤗
MilitantIrishShepherd · 26-30, M
Stern but fair. I don't tear myself down but I can't be too easy on myself either.

No one else will make me maintain high standards in life.
MilitantIrishShepherd · 26-30, M
[@1158409,littlepuppywantanewlife] No. My life ambition is to gain a mastery of the English language, as you obviously have
[@8731,MilitantIrishShepherd] Dude, don't tell me you can't speak English. 🙄

Lol... you are Irish right??

I know they teach you at school in English and your language apart from Irish is English...

I am Iranian and write and read like this...

لطفا سر به سرم نگذار... انگلیسی من خیلی مضخرفه
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
Yes, I frequently reward myself with ice cream.

Best way, indeed... 🍦🍦
There's no such thing as "fair". It's an illusion we convince ourselves of.

Life doesn't promise anyone anything. What is good and "fair" for me will not be for you or the next guy.
[@1067,Soossie] no. I tend to be harder on myself than on others. I expect more from myself than i do anyone else.

Perhaps you expect from yourself things that you believe makes you a better and fairer person... good luck to you my friend...
[@1067,Soossie] good luck to you as well, my friend.
pearllederman · 61-69, F
i think everyone does, where do you put your questions? i could never find them, i saw this one cause it was on top of the questions
pearllederman · 61-69, F
[@1067,Soossie] i just dont see them,i see the same question from oct 5 on there all the time and nothing on top of them
BreezeyBree · 56-60, F
[@2745,pearllederman] Pearl, if a user has any posts pinned to the top, you have to scroll down to get past those and then see new ones. I don't know if Soosie has any pinned, but if so, that may be the problem.
pearllederman · 61-69, F
[@1210541,BreezeyBree] okay, thanks, i'll try that
elafina · 31-35, F
I am not totally fair to myself yet. I have come a looong long way though! got a couple of more miles to finish this 🧡 I'm almost there Soossie 😊 and I've done all the work and i keep on doing it.
As you say, we are good beings.

Brava beautiful.... you'll be there soon... Great Job lovely... 🤗🤗🌹
Magenta · F
Lovely. Oh, this life as a human. 💝🌷🤗

Hey beautiful... thank you...

silentwriter180 · 51-55, F

Hello sweet sweet lady... so good to see you.... and thank you.. 🤗🤗❤
silentwriter180 · 51-55, F
[@1067,Soossie] good to see you as well, my dear sister. Been on my feet everyday, all day lately, with very little time in between. I do think of you and my sisters here often. Love you, miss you. 🤗😘❤️

You are in my daily prayers... May God Almighty privide you with Strength and health...🤗🤗

I love and miss you too❤🌹
JustNik · 46-50, F
You are a truly lovely soul. 🤗🤗

Thank you lovely Nik... so are you... 🤗❤🌹
Not really i have beaten up myself alot. It's like I have never given myself an easy time.

Please dont let others make you treat or judge yourself badly....
[@1067,Soossie] well i dearly loved someone who dumped me. I have hard choices and currently depressed. Some good people here help me with positive words. Irish man is funny guy so I believe he is ok with me teasing him around. ☺️🐰

You'll be fine... just give it time....
OldBrit · 56-60, M
I am most definitely my harshest critic

It is ok to be self critic but be a fair one please... 🤗🤗
mrlopez · 26-30, M
I'm pretty harsh on myself

Please dont be.... you are a good man... I know that...🤗🤗
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
Yes you are!!! 🤗🤗😘

So are you dear Spokes... 🤗🤗❤

I hope that you are... we do our best to be the best that we can be... sometimes it doesnt work but that doesnt change the goodness within you...🤗🤗🌹

Oh beautiful V00doo... you should... please.. 😘😘

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