I think this is acceptance

It's interesting. The longer I'm a part from him, the more I see that we weren't right for each other. I think I do that often. Stay too close in a relationship, not giving myself enough "me time" to really see if it's what I want in the first place.

I want a relationship to work so badly, that I focus on that. "How can I make this work?" Instead of "Do I even want it to work with this person?"

Initially I was mad at him for not trying to make it work as hard as I was... but maybe I should be thanking him now. Maybe he is brave for not bending so much and staying true to himself even if it meant we weren't going to work out. It seems that's a quality I need to work on.

I don't need to be so willing to make accommodations in every relationship. Maybe I should just see how the relationship goes if I change nothing. Maybe that's what's most important. *shrug*

Dv8rs · 18-21, F

When you find your niche in a relationship, nothing needs to be changed, you fit them, and they you. Nonetheless, all relationships take work, and sacrifices. Like the Yin and Yang, one gives, while the other takes, just the symbol alone shows one bending to the others curve, and for a relationship to really work, this is how it has to be, or it doesn't work.