How to be kind when being honest?
Is it really that hard to be honest and still be kind about it?
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Kind honesty does sometimes require more thought but it is worth it.
I try to remember that 'honesty' and 'truth' are not necessarily synonymous. What I honestly think may not be truth. It's only my opinion.
That popular phrase "brutal honesty" could be shortened to just 'brutal.' Moreover, if I am brutally honest, I may as well save my breath. The hearer will be so busy processing hurt and resentment and anger, they won't even hear the 'truth' I think I told them.
I try to remember that 'honesty' and 'truth' are not necessarily synonymous. What I honestly think may not be truth. It's only my opinion.
That popular phrase "brutal honesty" could be shortened to just 'brutal.' Moreover, if I am brutally honest, I may as well save my breath. The hearer will be so busy processing hurt and resentment and anger, they won't even hear the 'truth' I think I told them.
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@Mamapolo2016 This is an amazing comment and right on track. If someone is hurt, they are most likely not going to process it all well or listen.
Best comment, Mamapolo2016!
Best comment, Mamapolo2016!
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@Mamapolo2016 You're welcome. Thank you for pointing out how the one being told a truth may take it all.
CantExplain · 61-69, M
@Mamapolo2016 amen
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