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If you love someone, will you change for them?

Lolz...I always laugh at this question coz change is inevitable in life. Whether you change for somebody else or not, you’ll always find yourself looking back at your 10 year younger pic and think of how much time has changed you physically as well as mentally.

That said, love will always bring out the best in you...so yes, true love will change you for the better. 😊🥰

I know I’ve changed for Rutters, without him ever demanding it from me. And he can say the same bout me.
TeirdalinFirefall · 31-35, M
If you need to change, then clearly they don't love you for who you are to begin with.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Only if they have shown a light on some negative behavior and I agree and desire to make that change.
hunkalove · 61-69, M
If she has a cute butt.
SW-User
No. I'll change because I feel I need to, and that's the only reason.
In my experience, when I change for others, it never works out well.
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SW-User
To a degree perhaps. Relationships are built on trust, honesty and compromise.
Madmonk · M
No.

I can’t even change for myself.

I am my own worst enemy
It depends on what they want me to change. If it’s a bad habit they have a problem with, I will try. But if they want too many changes, that may indicate we’re just not compatible.
Notsimilar · 31-35, F
Absolutely there are things I'd change
Wiseacre · F
I'm open to change if I feel it's beneficial.
LadyJ · F
I did for the better
cycleman · 61-69, M
is she open to making changes for me too?

more than anything, I so see this as a huge mistake. I know I have lots of flaws, but so what! Everyone has them. Why be suckered in for all the angst?
GeorgeTBH · 31-35, M
Myzery · 41-45, F
SW-User
No...people are who they are . On the surface ,maybe ,for a short time but it never lasts
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
I might....even though I know that I probably otter not.
xSharp · 31-35, M
i change for me, cuz i love me
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
If it is not too demanding.
Tminus6453 · M
I'd change my clothes🕺
Bang5luts · M
I guess it depends on the change but if you truly love somebody you make changes in your life you better fit you're goals and lifestyle. I think that goes without saying though. It's more or less automatic I believe
TheLordOfHell · 41-45
Noh. They should accept who you are
Azlotto · M
I did. I suddenly believed in divorce.

 
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