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GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
I hear the front lobe isnt fully developed till your like 19- 22 years old or something🤷♂️ also they get stuck in these social groups at school and have no sense of identity so they cling to what gives them attention. Its just what happens to our children in this current societal structure. Also most let their emotions control their thoughts rather than knowing they control their emotions with their thoughts. Just something left out of the curriculum i guess🤷♂️ they are still learning how to interact with their environment.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@GuyWithOpinions also they will absorb how you react to things. If you want calm, show them how to be calm effectively
Punches · 46-50, F
@GuyWithOpinions One thing that helps develop the front lobe for 19 - 22 year olds is when the real world kicks them in the butt enough times.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@Punches only as long as they learn from their triumphs and failures. Or else they fall apart.
Myocite · F
@GuyWithOpinions You're absolutely right. I need to remember that! I'm very emotional and reactive. Thank you for reminding me of this!