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Starsandfire · 31-35, F
Alright so I have a little experience with this because my sister married a man 30 plus years her senior, not for money either. She met him on experience project and did a surprise move to a different country and married him to stay there. We haven’t seen her for years, she’s never met my kids etc. From that experience I would say that it shouldn’t be a problem if both are happy. We were more upset that he flew over and hid away on the evening she was leaving, so they left without telling anyone or saying goodbye for no reason. In a practical sense he is apparently very fit and healthy for his age, has a job, she doesn’t really want kids etc etc. They seem happy and so it’s not really any of my business but I can’t say I liked it and I still feel a bit weird about it. A mixed bag of emotions really.
