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My ex won’t let go and is playing mind games…

We’ve been separated for 3 and a half months. He doesn’t want to accept it and after a few months of him picking fights with me, coming over here to yell at me and telling me what an awful person I am. Now he’s changed and is saying the sweetest things to me.

I’m on tinder, he knows, I told him to try tinder. So after he says these amazingly sweet things to me, he tells me he joined tinder because I told him to and it just made him more sad and miss me more.

Now he wants to have a deep conversation to know all the details about my tinder fun. Saying he’s put up with more than most men (even though we’re not together) and that I owe it to him to tell him.

Can someone explain his side to me? A prospective I’m not seeing? Truthfully it just feels like a really bad idea to answer the questions he’s asking.
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he is controlling and abusive,set boundaries,keep your personal life personal. I know you think you are helping him by being honest and open but you are only enabling his toxic mindset, unwillingly and unknowingly but still
Sweetpoison · 41-45, F
Marstar22 · 36-40, F
@PepsiColaP you are completely right. I did tell him that I wasn’t going to answer those questions because I didn’t see the point and it would just piss him off and build resentment
@Marstar22 you shouldnt even explain yourself to him. Im sorry you are in that situation I hope he leaves you alone soon
Marstar22 · 36-40, F
@PepsiColaP we have kids so that’s unlikely. In the beginning of our separation I told him I wanted no contact, he could go through one of my best friends or my mom if he needed to say something or make plans to see our daughters. That when he showed up and yelled at me and told me I’ve betrayed him, i’m terrible etc