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Yesterday I had a chat with a guy here which made me kinda jealous honestly.

Yeah yesterday I had messaged a 22-25 age range guy here to brag that I have more followers than him. He is 22 and I am 20. He took it lightly and I said sorry and we began chatting. He then asked me whether I have any girlfriend or not and I said no. Then he said how he have fun with the girls where he lives. He lives in US and he had several girlfriends and now he also has fun with the girl who is his neighbor. Honestly that made me jealous too because I am in India and I can't do all these. I said him how hard dating in India as most people aren't open minded and he felt sorry about it. He also sent a pic of him and that girl and that made me even jealous as she is so pretty and he is enjoying with her. Honestly India feels so boring. I can't imagine having those kinds of fun here in India, as most of us live with parents and there is no privacy at all. I find it kinda unfair how guys in the West have all these fun and we Indian guys can't do them. I also wanna have fun like him picking girls, dating them and having fun. Hopefully I will go to US or Canada or UK for further studies after 2 or 3 years but it sucks I have to still wait at least 2 years before I can move out. I decided that I would only date and marry a Western girl in future and I wouldn't even care if my family members doesn't like it because why should I? It's my life and I also wanna have those fun and wanna get loved too which won't be possible in those outdated arranged marriages.
its ok as he will get stds and angry exes and you will always have your family instead. cheers

btw some people lie and exaggerate so dont believe everything weirdos online tell you
Maruti800isthebest · 18-21, M
[@209334,MadBossFTW] Come on I don't want arranged marriage. Its my decision that I will date and marry an American or European girl in future. Its 21st Century I can love and marry whoever I want to.
do your folks know that? [@1204421,Maruti800isthebest]
Maruti800isthebest · 18-21, M
[@209334,MadBossFTW] I shared with 2 or 3 of my close friends about it and they are open minded about it.
Mamapolo2016 · 70-79, F
You should understand that while the West is more open and free, there aren't orchards that grow girls and you just walk along and pick the low-hanging fruit.

Also know that while you are having fun you may also be making a baby, and you may pay for that fun with child support until the baby is 18.
Maruti800isthebest · 18-21, M
[@663519,Mamapolo2016] But for now I just want a girl whom I can cuddle, kiss, hug and give lots of piggyback rides and most importantly love without caring about what others think. In India, kissing and hugging in public is frowned and we can't do it privately as we still live with parents. I don't want such a dating life in which I can't even kiss or hug a girl freely as there is so less privacy here. I am not just for fun but also for love but in India because of the people, dating is hard and still arranged marriage is done here. I don't want any of them honestly.
trotskyaxn · 36-40, M
Welcome to the US and feel free to increase our immigrant load by 1 more.
Maruti800isthebest · 18-21, M
[@1184312,trotskyaxn] Dude stop having this mentality. And also I might go to Canada or UK too.
trotskyaxn · 36-40, M
[@1204421,Maruti800isthebest] go anywhere and enjoy.

You should enjoy. You are my friend too and I want you to enjoy wherever you go, if they take you in.
MizzO · 31-35, F
I can't speak about arranged marriages but I am also in the U.S and it's not better than what you live like it's just different. While true that there are freedoms here that are more regulated else where, there are also broken families that don't stay together and much heartache in being with many different people. Pray if you marry a western woman you do not loose your way. Not all western women are bad but not all are good and it's not always to see.
LittleBallOfFire · 18-21, F
Aw I’m sorry it’s good you’re being open and honest about your feelings

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