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Just ended a friendship

He has autism and hard to deal with I can’t do it anyone it’s to stressful man God forgive me but I don’t got the patience he starts fights every other day I am suprised I last this long since April I was just pushed to the edge and I just couldn’t do it no more I really couldn’t like it’s too toxic
Having a autism adult friend more stressful then i thought need help on learning to have patience if not I’ll end it help me please
- They may struggle to understand body language, facial expressions and gestures.
- Rigidity in the way people with autism can think may make it difficult for them to compromise or cope with changes in routine.
- They may latch on to previous negative experiences and expect the same thing to happen in every friendship.
- They may struggle to understand their own emotions, for example anxiety relating to friendships or jealousy.
- Texting a lot way more then a person would Which i hate
The THing that just piss me off a day since the day time it’s night now Two minutes ago I just like cut it I couldn’t no more he wouldn’t drop the fact that I said cut the conversation stop you know I don’t wanna talk about it and he’s like oh I was not raised to understand to drop a conversation I was like what are you gonna learn today and he just kept provoking provoking provoking and poke in the tiger basically and I just like I’m done
Sorry I am just vent I hope no one gets offended on this sorry if you do but I got stress, depression and high blood pressure How long you think I could take???
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uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Not something I could deal with. I'm sorry that he has that issue, but at the end of the day [i]it is not your problem.[/i]
AsianEyezChulaRp · 31-35, F
I know I was trying to be nice but I just can’t deal with it no more I feel bad but I am sure he can find a new friend and hopefully they’ll hit more patience then me @uncalled4
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@AsianEyezChulaRp It's nice you hung in there for that long, but that is not your cross to bear.
AsianEyezChulaRp · 31-35, F
@uncalled4 agree my best friend told me drop him you stress way more I said I’ll give it him one more chance I gave four times plus all the other fights though these months I couldn’t no more
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@AsianEyezChulaRp What you did was laudable, but no point in taking it on the chin.
AsianEyezChulaRp · 31-35, F
@uncalled4 thanks I know I try to see the best in people but sometimes people won’t chance and you just got to move from them to do better for yourself
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@AsianEyezChulaRp I have a friend who suffers from a laundry list of issues and yes, it's not always a picnic, but it always rights itself and this friend is wonderful to have. It absolutely HAS been dramatic at times.
AsianEyezChulaRp · 31-35, F
This year my depression and my stress is the highest ever in life and I’ve told him that and on top of that I just started some high blood pressure pills recently and I just couldn’t do it anymore I felt like I’m putting him first and not me like I had to cut some friends in December of last year and that hurt but I had to because they weren’t good for me @uncalled4
AsianEyezChulaRp · 31-35, F
@uncalled4 I understand that