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Just ended a friendship

He has autism and hard to deal with I can’t do it anyone it’s to stressful man God forgive me but I don’t got the patience he starts fights every other day I am suprised I last this long since April I was just pushed to the edge and I just couldn’t do it no more I really couldn’t like it’s too toxic
Having a autism adult friend more stressful then i thought need help on learning to have patience if not I’ll end it help me please
- They may struggle to understand body language, facial expressions and gestures.
- Rigidity in the way people with autism can think may make it difficult for them to compromise or cope with changes in routine.
- They may latch on to previous negative experiences and expect the same thing to happen in every friendship.
- They may struggle to understand their own emotions, for example anxiety relating to friendships or jealousy.
- Texting a lot way more then a person would Which i hate
The THing that just piss me off a day since the day time it’s night now Two minutes ago I just like cut it I couldn’t no more he wouldn’t drop the fact that I said cut the conversation stop you know I don’t wanna talk about it and he’s like oh I was not raised to understand to drop a conversation I was like what are you gonna learn today and he just kept provoking provoking provoking and poke in the tiger basically and I just like I’m done
Sorry I am just vent I hope no one gets offended on this sorry if you do but I got stress, depression and high blood pressure How long you think I could take???
Tython · 26-30, M
It may have been the healthy choice to make, removing yourself from a situation that causes you stress. No one on this site can know the full situation so ignore any negative feedback you may get.
murderinaLatina · 31-35, F
Agree. And it’s not like I warn him I want him several times and I want him to day more than five times to drop the conversation to stop axing and he just kept provoking me and provoking me and I just couldn’t do it no more I just couldn’t like it’s to much to deal with [@943705,Tython]
Fariss11 · 26-30, F
Ya well its not ur fault.. u tried to be patient.. but couldn't understandable. Don't think about it.
murderinaLatina · 31-35, F
[@1226970,Fariss11] thanks
Arorin · 31-35, M
It happens sometimes. A person can handle only so much as you have said.
Arorin · 31-35, M
[@936727,murderinaLatina] Take care of yourself first maybe more time will yield results.
murderinaLatina · 31-35, F
[@279642,Arorin] ya thanks
Arorin · 31-35, M
[@936727,murderinaLatina] of course
Hopefully my son will make friends who have more patience and can deal with him better🥺
uncalled4 · 51-55, M
Not something I could deal with. I'm sorry that he has that issue, but at the end of the day [i]it is not your problem.[/i]
uncalled4 · 51-55, M
[@936727,murderinaLatina] I have a friend who suffers from a laundry list of issues and yes, it's not always a picnic, but it always rights itself and this friend is wonderful to have. It absolutely HAS been dramatic at times.
murderinaLatina · 31-35, F
This year my depression and my stress is the highest ever in life and I’ve told him that and on top of that I just started some high blood pressure pills recently and I just couldn’t do it anymore I felt like I’m putting him first and not me like I had to cut some friends in December of last year and that hurt but I had to because they weren’t good for me [@329500,uncalled4]
murderinaLatina · 31-35, F
[@329500,uncalled4] I understand that
lost213 · 41-45, M
No judgement ..
murderinaLatina · 31-35, F
Thanks [@379992,lost213]
john12 · 22-25, M
sorry to hear that i had a similar experience before but she didnt have autism just other problems instead so i kinda know what u going through
murderinaLatina · 31-35, F
[@1175873,john12] thanks and I am sorry you had to go through it too
john12 · 22-25, M
[@936727,murderinaLatina] thanks
Spaceshipcaptain · 41-45, M
I am sorry, that's rough
murderinaLatina · 31-35, F
Me too but I tried [@518144,Spaceshipcaptain]

 
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