What is the problem with American women? Why do so many want to be social media models, show their butts and be independent and unattached from a man?

For part of an answer, that's the current trend. Be an idol to strangers across the world! It's like being a celebrity, but easier. Of course, the vast majority fail, but the dream still lives.

As for independence, some can pull it off quite well. Others that try crash and burn. Those that succeed realize that you need to be willing to put in the hours to make it work.